Relationship Alignment
When "We’re Fine" Starts to Sound Like a Question
The Relationship Alignment Index is the 15‑minute gut‑check that keeps two people from drifting into polite‑roommate territory.
Relationship Alignment
Why the RAI Exists
There’s a razor‑thin line between “comfortable” and “coasting.” One minute you’re swapping dumb memes across the table; the next you’re strangers on adjacent couches, half‑listening to true‑crime podcasts. The RAI calls time‑out before the drift becomes the default, shining a light on places where love is solid—and where it’s running on fumes.
Who It’s For
Fresh-start daters
Fresh‑start daters who want an early‑warning system before habits harden.
Long‑haul partners
Long‑haul partners—five, ten, twenty years deep—who refuse to coast on history alone.
Engaged couples
Engaged couples buried in venue spreadsheets & forgetting why they said yes.
New parents
New parents juggling diapers & deadlines, wondering where their chemistry went.
Roommates‑in‑love
Roommates‑in‑love working opposite schedules and craving a reset button.
If you share a rent check, a streaming password, or a future dream board, the RAI belongs in your toolbox.
Take the RAI Today
Six evidence‑based domains that predict long‑term relationship health.
Domain
Communication
Trust & Security
The Core Questions
Can we show the messy parts without regret?
Do our fights sharpen us or strip us down?
Are the micro‑moments fueling or draining us?
What You’ll Get
- Personal Alignment Score—a color‑coded dashboard and plain‑English narrative.
- Two Customized Growth Worksheets laser‑focused on your lowest‑scoring domains.
- Strength‑Framed Feedback that invites teamwork, not blame.
- Action Plan designed to fit on one date‑night napkin.
Real-Life Shifts
One-Time,
No-Strings Pricing
Frequently Asked Questions
Yes—you’re meant to. Relationships aren’t static, and neither is the RAI. Each time you retake the assessment, your new scores are automatically compared to your previous ones. This lets you see exactly where you’ve grown, where alignment has improved, and where more attention might be needed. It’s not just a snapshot—it’s a progress tracker for your relationship.
Unlike typical online quizzes, the RAI is built by a licensed couples therapist and backed by relationship science. It gives you a clear Alignment Score, interpretable insights, and customized next steps—like worksheets and challenges—to actively improve your connection.
Absolutely. The RAI isn’t just for couples in trouble. It’s designed for every stage of a relationship—whether you’re feeling disconnected, wanting a tune-up, or simply curious about how aligned you really are. It’s a proactive roadmap, not just a reactive tool.
Not at all. Different scores don’t mean failure—they highlight growth edges. The RAI shows why you’re scoring differently and gives you practical tools to bridge those gaps instead of leaving you stuck in them.
The full version takes about 20–25 minutes per person, and no—you don’t have to complete it at the same time. Each partner gets their own private link, and your results are only combined once both are finished
No. Each parent will receive a separate link and can complete the PAI at their own pace. Once both submissions are received, your combined results will generate a customized report that compares alignment scores and provides a roadmap for growth.
Ready to Realign?
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