Parenting Alignment

Two Captains. "One Kid." Same Game Plan?

The Parenting Alignment Index is the 20‑minute sideline huddle that turns mixed signals into a united front.
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Parenting Alignment

Why the PAI Exists

Kids are forensic listeners. They clock every eye‑roll at bedtime, every whispered argument about screen time, every “fine, whatever” dropped at the playground.
The PAI calls a timeout before those tiny fractures become fault lines, giving parents a clear readout on where they’re synced and where they’re scrambling.

Who It’s For

First‑timer parents

First‑timer parents bracing for Year One plot twists.

Veteran caregivers

Veteran caregivers juggling homework, hormones, and half‑forgotten date nights.

Separated co-parents

Separated or divorced co‑parents who swap houses but still want to share values.

Blended families

Blended families blending rules, routines, and relatives under one roof.

Soon‑to‑be parents

Soon‑to‑be parents who’d rather prep now than unlearn later.

If you share a last name, a custody calendar, or a dog‑eared parenting podcast queue, the PAI belongs in your playbook.

Take the PAI Today

Eight core domains that shape day‑to‑day parenting harmony:

Domain

Discipline Philosophy
Emotional Attunement
Daily Routines
Learning & Play
Values & Culture
Extended‑Family Boundaries
Long‑Term Vision
Stress & Self‑Care

The Core Questions

Do our corrections teach or just punish?
Are we reading the same emotional weather?
Is the schedule a safety net or a straitjacket?
Are we stretching their minds the same way?

Are we modeling a shared moral compass?

Do we set the same guardrails with grandparents and friends?

Are we aiming for the same finish line—college, character, or both?
Are we protecting our own oxygen masks before helping the kid?
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What You’ll Get

Real-Life Shifts

One-Time,
No-Strings Pricing

$57 nets the full report plus two bespoke worksheets.
Need deeper dives later? Extra worksheet packs are on‑demand and affordable.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the Parenting Alignment Index (PAI), and how can it help us as co-parents?

The PAI is a research-backed relationship tool designed to measure how aligned you and your co-parent are across key parenting domains—such as discipline, emotional responsiveness, routines, values, and communication. It helps you identify your strengths, surface areas of tension, and receive personalized insights and actionable worksheets to support a more unified parenting approach.

Do we both need to take the PAI at the same time?

No. Each parent will receive a separate link and can complete the PAI at their own pace. Once both submissions are received, your combined results will generate a customized report that compares alignment scores and provides a roadmap for growth.

Is the PAI only for couples who are married or living together?

Not at all. The PAI is designed for all parenting partnerships—including divorced, separated, or never-married co-parents—who want to improve collaboration and reduce conflict. The insights are equally valuable for romantic couples or platonic parenting teams.

Can we retake the PAI? How does it compare previous scores with new ones?

Yes, you can retake the PAI at any time to track your alignment over time. When you retake it, the new results will be automatically compared to your previous scores—highlighting areas of growth, recurring challenges, and shifts in alignment. This makes the PAI a powerful tool for ongoing progress, not just one-time reflection.

What happens after we complete the PAI? Do we just get a score?

Your results include more than a simple score. You’ll receive a beautifully designed report that breaks down your alignment across multiple parenting domains, with personalized insights and optional follow-up worksheets based on your lowest-scoring areas. This means you walk away with concrete next steps—not just a summary.

Is the PAI judgmental or based on “right vs. wrong” parenting?

Not at all. The PAI is alignment-focused, not compliance-based. It’s not about grading your parenting style—it’s about understanding how your approaches compare and how those differences might affect your parenting relationship. The goal is collaboration, not criticism.

Give Your Child a Connected Team

Take the PAI Today

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