Relationship Alignment

When "We’re Fine" Starts to Sound Like a Question

The Relationship Alignment Audit is the 20‑minute gut‑check that keeps two people from drifting into polite‑roommate territory.

Relationship Alignment

Relationship Alignment Audit

Why the RAA Exists

There’s a razor‑thin line between “comfortable” and “coasting.” One minute you’re swapping dumb memes across the table; the next you’re strangers on adjacent couches, half‑listening to true‑crime podcasts.
The RAA calls time‑out before the drift becomes the default, shining a light on places where love is solid—and where it’s running on fumes.

Who It’s For

Fresh-start daters

Fresh‑start daters who want an early‑warning system before habits harden.

Long‑haul partners

Long‑haul partners—five, ten, twenty years deep—who refuse to coast on history alone.

Engaged couples

Engaged couples buried in venue spreadsheets & forgetting why they said yes.

New parents

New parents juggling diapers & deadlines, wondering where their chemistry went.

Roommates‑in‑love

Roommates‑in‑love working opposite schedules and craving a reset button.

If you share a rent check, a streaming password, or a future dream board, the RAA belongs in your toolbox.

Take the RAA Today

Six evidence‑based domains that predict long‑term relationship health.

Domain

Communication

Emotional Intimacy

Trust & Security

Shared Goals
Conflict Styles
Daily Connection

The Core Questions

Do we feel heard—or just spoken at?

Can we show the messy parts without regret?

Are we rock‑solid when stuff hits the fan?
Is the horizon pulling us in the same direction?

Do our fights sharpen us or strip us down?

Are the micro‑moments fueling or draining us?

Long‑haul partners—five, ten, twenty years deep—who refuse to coast on history alone.

What You’ll Get

Real-Life Shifts

One-Time,
No-Strings Pricing

$495 gets you your full report and free access to the two courses your results point to. Each one is a seven-day practice you can do together. Want to go deeper later? The other four are available at a discount.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can we retake the Relationship Alignment Audit over time?

Yes—you’re meant to. Relationships aren’t static, and neither is the RAA. Each time you retake the assessment, your new scores are automatically compared to your previous ones. This lets you see exactly where you’ve grown, where alignment has improved, and where more attention might be needed. It’s not just a snapshot—it’s a progress tracker for your relationship.

Is this just another personality quiz, or will it actually help our relationship?

Unlike typical online quizzes, the RAA is built by a licensed couples therapist and backed by relationship science. It gives you a clear Alignment Score, interpretable insights, and customized next steps—like worksheets and challenges—to actively improve your connection.

Can we still use the RAA if we’re not in crisis?

Absolutely. The RAA isn’t just for couples in trouble. It’s designed for every stage of a relationship—whether you’re feeling disconnected, wanting a tune-up, or simply curious about how aligned you really are. It’s a proactive roadmap, not just a reactive tool.

What if my partner and I score really differently—does that mean we’re incompatible?

Not at all. Different scores don’t mean failure—they highlight growth edges. The RAA shows why you’re scoring differently and gives you practical tools to bridge those gaps instead of leaving you stuck in them.

How long does the assessment take, and do we have to do it at the same time?

The full version takes about 20–25 minutes per person, and no—you don’t have to complete it at the same time. Each partner gets their own private link, and your results are only combined once both are finished

Do we both need to take the Parenting Alignment Audit (PAA) at the same time as the RAA?

No. Each parent will receive a separate link and can complete the PAA at their own pace. Once both submissions are received, your combined results will generate a customized report that compares alignment scores and provides a roadmap for growth.

Ready to Realign?

Take the RAA Today

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